The Science of Dispute Resolution and Negotiation

As someone who is #Dyslexic and I'm told lives with both #Autistism and an #AquiredBrainInjury #ABI. Yesterday, I had a lengthy complex conversation with someone, who tried to make the point "How Long, Can You Do This, what is the purpose and Goal!" and my reply threw him, "I didn't start this!" I guess it comes down to the people who are sent to #Negotiate with me.

Just so we have the definition clearly out there

Barclays and I are in a dispute and have been since 2009/ 2010

OED

noun

noun: dispute; plural noun: disputes

/dɪˈspjuːt,ˈdɪspjuːt/

1. a disagreement or argument.

OED (Oxford English Dictionary)

disagreement

/ˌdɪsəˈɡriːm(ə)nt/

noun

noun: disagreement; plural noun: disagreements

1. lack of consensus or approval.

Our #Dispute/ #Disagreement started when I pointed out a couple of things, these revolved around my #JunkMortgage. Which I should never have been signed off on and I wanted to know who was responsible for authorising it. After I informed #Barclays of my near fatal accident in 2009, #Barclays at first offered unconditional support and then for no explainable reason, they #DeBanked me.

The #Ombudsman recommended to #negotiations and to #engage with the other party to find a path to settle the #dispute

OED (Oxford English Dictionary)

negotiation

/nɪˌɡəʊʃɪˈeɪʃn/ 

noun

noun: negotiation; plural noun: negotiations

1. 1.

   discussion aimed at reaching an agreement.

   
   
   
   

   Negotiations are a two way street, which probably came as surprise when I made 2 specific offers to settle the matter and one very frivolous offer... just see what response I would get.... The reply I got from Barclays was well they'd blocked my ability to post onto their Facebook page... much to my surprise the reply was they blocked me and called the police trying to disrupt my working day and have my opinions based on fact... peer reviewed by the police....

   Which is really helping me to think about my actions so I'm going to post on their remaining social feeds every day and twice on a sunday....

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